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Having a kid changes your life in many ways (for example, today I am Sick, but instead of calling off work and lazing around drinking water and watching daytime soap operas, I am still fielding questions and insistent requests for playing and having to fend off the Rocket from kissing me so she doesn’t get sick too, which makes her cry) but one of the ways I didn’t expect was that sudden urge to make the most of my spare time made me – and this sounds vain – actually a little bit more interesting. As dithering late-twentysomethings, Teach and I had our jobs and each other and our insular creative pursuits, then we had a baby and, I guess, to remind ourselves that we were things other than parents and job-holders, we started to find other outlets. Teach joined a band, was shortlisted for an award for a comic he drew, and has just sent off the final file for his full-length graphic novel to the printers to publish. I have my podcast, I joined a book club full of pretty cool folks, and found myself part of ACWA, which handles the Ned Kelly Awards for Australian crime writing. After months of emails and demands and panic-flailing, this weekend saw the announcement of the shortlist the committee and the judges had worked hard to put together, two hours away at the Bendigo Writers Festival. Teach suggested I take myself off on the train to attend the shortlist announcement on the Saturday night and get a visit in with my very oldest friend, Rachael, who lives up there. I said no at first, because it’s what I do, and the idea of spending my first night away from my daughter was pretty overwhelming. Then I thought more about being there to see the finished product of the shortlist, and spending time with the first friend I’d ever made on my own, and then the Rocket spent a whole day annoying me and I was all: I’M IN, LET’S GO.

The train ride took around an hour and fifty minutes; in that time, I played with my phone, read a book, looked at scenery, ate chips, ate an apple after feeling bad about eating chips, and was just completely and utterly on my own. It was quite blissful, really – I’d brought a book of short stories along (this one), so I could feel like I’d finished something before taking in the passing tiny towns, enormous homesteads, and green landscapes dotted with trees, cows, hay bales, all the kinds of stickers you’d get in a book about the country. It was quite marvellous. Even better was the squeezy hug I got from Rachael at Kangaroo Flat, where she met me with a big beautiful smile and, like always, even when we hadn’t spoken by anything apart from SMS for months, it was like we had never been apart. Back at her place, with her partner and their youngest son at home merrily working on some banging and crashing that tradesfolk and their four-year-olds are wont to do, we hoovered down some lunch and then she spirited me away for a little tour.

She drove me past her work, past a vast and entrancing amount of lovely ye olde buildings, around the fountain that one colleague told me to say hello to, and then up to the Capital Theatre for a pre-event scope-out (because when you’ve known someone for twenty-eight years, you know when they are getting anxious about something, especially when she tells you, “I am feeling quite anxious about this”), then to the accompanying gallery for a brief and impressive look-see, then for a coffee at the Basement on View. It’s tucked underneath the theatre and I realised immediately upon entering that this was the type of place I wished was my local cafe. They were flat-out catering for festival-going literary types, but we found ourselves a cosy little nook in a building almost completely made up of cosy little nooks, and sat together with warm drinks and company and well, you know. It was really just the best.

Back at her place after a scenic way back, I faffed about in front of a mirror and then headed out to the event itself, which I’ve detailed better here; suffice it to say that it all went smoothly, the company was delectable and you should read all those books. A tableful of us headed tipsily out for dinner as well, attempting at first to go to Bunja Thai (lookit that glorious heritage interior in the link!) but they were too full to accommodate us, so we tripped a couple of shops up the road to Curry Garden, which, excitedly, had a little sign right there on the menu saying that there were vegan options available. (I was super pleased about that, as I’d been intending on flying under the radar on this particular culinary expedition, maybe having a spoonful of rice and saying I wasn’t hungry, just so I didn’t have to tell my new friends I was vegan, as I’d been frantically Googling “vegan Bendigo” for a while before and found virtually nothing vegan, so I couldn’t even make suggestions.) They had a special list of all the items that were vegan or could be made vegan, and we ordered three appetisers, two mains, rice and some roti I could have, along with a couple of non-veg mains too. The onion bhaji were almost worth losing friends over, and the chickpea masala and aloo palak perfectly serviceable. The service was friendly, but a bit slow; I’d still happily return.

The next morning, I deigned to leave my snuggly cocoon of a sleeping bag and declared that I would take my three hosts out for breakfast. Turns out nothing in Bendigo is open before ten o’clock on a Sunday morning – “We’re on country time, remember?” Rachael said at one point as I stared sadly in a closed cafe’s window at their warm-looking fire – so we ended up at the Pall Mall Cafe, a small but friendly cafe that does a trade in your standard big breakfasts. I just ordered toast and coffee, and the service was ridiculously fast (handy when you have a friendly but bored four-year-old crawling all over the place), and the coffee was HUGE – I didn’t even finish it, I was so overwhelmed. Nothing flash, but nothing to sneer at by any means. Across the road was a park, a playground, a lovely old bridge (seriously, I’m just saying, and this is very unlike me because I am Very Modern and Stuff, but Bendigo’s 82,000+ population gets to see much nicer architecture just everywhere than we do down in upstart young Melbourne), and a giant, gorgeous and historic-looking old school, and so we ran around in the cold for a while before heading over to the Showgrounds Market, a fairly large and sprawling market that seems to survive almost entirely on plants and counterfeit Peppa Pig merchandise. I bought stickers for the kids to be the Favourite Aunt, and I made the surprising discovery in one of the halls of Wings Japanese Homemade Bakery. Wings has cakes, mousse, doughnuts, egg tarts and the like – and about six different vegan options. I was full from breakfast but picked up a little sample of a savoury curry doughnut, which was super yum – afterwards I moaned about not buying some for the train ride ahead. It started raining just as we got out of the hall, Rachael’s son covered in icing from his Japanese cupcake, so we drove back home and retired to the couch for one last companionable snuggle before I went off to the train station again to get home.

Selections at Wings Japanese Homemade Bakery

The trip was, again, delicious in its solitude; Melbourne was wet and freezing; but when I plodded all damp and whimpering up the driveway after walking from the station I was given the loveliest, happiest smile from my Rocket through the front window, and everything was warm after all.

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Friday morning saw Teach, the Rocket and myself waiting patiently at the hospital’s fracture clinic to see how his arm was healing (surprisingly well for someone determined to pretend his arm isn’t broken and continue flinging it around), then shipping him back to school for the afternoon. The Rocket and I, never ones to spend a single minute at home at the moment apparently, went straight to the station to pick up Steph, who was over my side of town and willing to be chauffeured to east side (imagine me throwing gang signs) haunts. First stop was Haveli, an Indian restaurant tucked away in a shopping square, where we had lunch. It’s also the first time I’ve taken the Rocket to a place that could be classified as a restaurant, in that it was sedate and had proper silverware and not truckloads of loud customers (like the Vegie Bar, for example). I was a bit nervous, but at least we were eating at a place with takeaway containers in case she did lose her shit and howl the entire time.

She didn’t. She sat quietly beside me and read Dear Zoo, then started to get a little shirty so I mashed up some of my peas and fed them to her, and then she was super happy. While it was physically difficult for me to eat my food around her because she was DESPERATE to get her fingers in my curry, I can’t fault her for being pretty good. She did throw her toys on the floor a bit but I blame her shameful lack of fine motor skills (I mean she’s seven months old, she should be able to play classical piano by now, right?) and not deliberate naughtiness. The waiter very kindly picked things up when she dropped them and seemed quite interested in watching her eat, which she does with full body excitement, arms flapping and panting and squealing all thrilled. Anyway, you are probably bored by now, so: the food! We ordered aloo palak (potatoes and spinach) on my request, bhindi masala (okra cooked with tomatoes, onion, ginger and spices) on the Australian Veg Food Guide‘s request, and vegetable biryani (rice cooked with saffron and vegetables) on Steph’s request.

Look, I say good things about everywhere I go because I just really like eating, but I totally enjoyed Haveli. The aloo palak was awesome, with a tasty green sauce and potatoes perfectly cooked to a firm but easily-forked-in-half consistency; the bhindi masala was hot but not too hot, and pretty good; the vegetable biryani was a great accompaniment, especially because it came with the peas I mashed for the kiddo. Of course, we also got roti because well why wouldn’t you, and it was warm and thick and easily torn and just, well, what a really nice meal. So on the upside, good food, good service, and probably the best vegan-friendly Indian near me (or in general? Happy to get more info on this particular subject); on the downside, it’s far too hard to eat with a kid on your lap, it was a bit too fancy if she did start to get stripey. Steph didn’t think she’d make the trek out to Doncaster to have it, but luckily for me I’m pretty close by so I’d probably come back if I found myself in need (NEED) of Indian, especially now that the supreme Vegetarian Nirvana in Richmond has closed down, taking my channa masala with it.

Afterwards, we went to Doncaster Shoppingtown again, had more Joy cupcakes (Steph declared the polenta cupcakes CHEWY, so we are NO LONGER FRIENDS) and grabbed a coffee, the baby was cute and we all lived happily ever after, the end.

Haveli Indian Restaurant

32 Tunstall Square

Doncaster East

9842 9375


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